The World’s Most Powerful Aphrodisiac? It’s not what you think.

5692_124593686833_115788661833_3029554_5722933_nYou’ve heard about oysters and caviar. How about champagne and a warm bath? Trust me none of these have been proven as a true aphrodisiac. In case you need a definition, an aphrodisiac is a substance that supposedly increases sexual desire. The name comes from Aphrodite, the Greek goddess of sensuality and love. Throughout history, many foods and drinks have had a reputation for making sex more attainable and/or pleasurable. However, from a historical and scientific standpoint, the alleged results are mainly due to a belief by their users that they would be effective. Yep, a placebo effect.

But there is one thing that works most of the time. I attest that the world’s most powerful aphrodisiac is one simple word. It is the word “No.” Spoken loudly or quietly, spoken in behavior or lack of behavior, the word “no” makes a sexual suitor sit up and take notice. The principal behind such wisdom is this. A psychologist’s mathematical formula for great sex is simply

Arousal + Obstacle = Erotic Sex

Some historians believe that the Catholic Church populated the planet with that equasion. The Church told people to say NO to sex for pleasure purposes and then out-lawed birth control. The result: Catholics in every corner of the globe.

Now think back to your most exciting sexual encounter. Was it intergenerational? Interracial? Was one person unavailable in some way? Nothing like an obstacle, be it a cultural or personal taboo, to get our juices flowing. Or, was it someone of a higher social status who was unattaianable in some way?

My advice: If you want to have wonderful sex, say NO to easily attainable sex.

4 thoughts on “The World’s Most Powerful Aphrodisiac? It’s not what you think.

  1. Wendy, great blog as usual. I have a lot of respect for you. I guess “NO” is a very powerful word that can impact both genders, immensely. You have a very logical/intelligent mind and a whole lot of common sense. Those are very desirable qualities in a woman. Though you are physically beautiful, your intelligence and having that rare common sense, makes you more so. Big hug for you, little princess. :)


    In fact you should remove your website

  3. I know this thing is 3 years old, but…
    The only thing this does is create frustration and all kinds of negative feelings for the person who is being said NO to.

    Please, do not follow this advice…

    p.s. I heard Yohimbe is pretty good :D

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