Love Lab LIVE! (April 18th, Santa Monica) is for couples, singles, men and women alike. For the singles in the audience, I have a special treat. Dating Coach Evan Marc Katz will be there. I invited him because of his unique perspective on men’s psychology. He teaches women how men think when it comes to courtship and commitment.
Recently, I interviewed Evan Marc Katz:
DR. WENDY: What is the number one thing that women don’t understand about male psychology?
EVAN: I find that women underestimate how much men want to be appreciated, admired and accepted. Or, the simple fact that men want to please a woman and are frustrated when we’re told we’re failing.
DR. WENDY: I think that certainly applies to both genders. I think a relationship is a home for the heart where one should feel loved and appreciated. Maybe because of all the intense competition that goes on between the sexes in the workplace, woman sometimes forget (or are too insecure) to turn it off at the daring table. Evan, what are the biggest differences between male and female mating strategy?
EVAN: I don’t think they should be all that different, nor that strategic. In my opinion, everyone should strive for a relationship with a 7 chemistry and 10 compatibility, instead of blindly being drawn towards the 10 chemistry, and settling for a 3 compatibility.
DR. WENDY: I agree. Sometimes this so called “chemistry” is actually attachment anxiety. Our early life traumas often lead us back to the scene of the crime in adult life and our sexual “high” or butterflies in our stomach are sometimes an indication that this person is WRONG for us.
EVAN: I see that often in my practice, Dr. Wendy. And I’d like to add to that I believe that both men and women should understand that the best partners have three qualities: lack of neuroticism/insecurity, lack of seeking novelty, and general agreeableness.
DR. WENDY: From a psychological perspective all those things boil down to a lack of self love. I always tell people we can’t expect anyone else to love us unless we love ourself first. Evan, if there is only one thing that you want every woman to know about relationships, it is…..
EVAN: Good relationships are easy. If it’s not easy, it’s not that good.
DR. WENDY: Well said Evan. I’ll see you at Love Lab LIVE! on April 18th. Buy tickets here!
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